This is actually an email I wrote to my clients about developing the right mindset to achieve your goals, but it's something I really feel strongly about so I thought I'd share it here as well:
I'm going to start my first email to you with a quote that I use as inspiration in my daily life and one that believe is very important to think about in regards to reaching your goal.
Believing that you can accomplish something is the first (and possibly most important) step to actually achieving your goal. If you believe that you can achieve it you will find a way to do it, if you don't think it is possible you will find excuses. Why are you going to take the time and effort to work towards something if you don't think you will ever get there?
So the first step to reaching your goals is really believing that it you CAN do it. Of course it will take hard work and it won't happen overnight, in fact it's going to take dedication and consistency over a few months (more or less depending on the goal). But If you KNOW that eventually you WILL achieve it, then you can view each workout you put in and every well balanced high nutrient meal you eat as getting you closer to that goal (same goes for any other behavior necessary for reaching your goal i.e. every time I study I get closer to passing my nutrition certification.)
On the other hand if you don't think it is possible, you may think to yourself (even if its subconsciously), "why am I going to take these steps if it's not going to get me to my goal anyway?" Your much less likely to make the time to workout, to push yourself to the limit, to fuel your body correctly because you don't see it as getting you any closer to your end goal.
It really becomes a self full filling prophecy: You think you can achieve it, so you put the work in day after day even though some days are tough and you might not feel like it (and I believe the days that are tough and you really have to motivate yourself to get it done are the days where you make yourself stronger both mentally and physically). You get it done because YOU KNOW that it's going to get you to where you want to be. Eventually you reach your goal and the work was more than worth it, and then you set new goals. Goals you might not have even thought were possible before but now you know with dedication anything is possible.
You have a goal(s), but you don't truly believe it's attainable. You put some work in, especially in the beginning, but if you don't feel like getting out of bed one morning or you aren't in the mood to push yourself that day, you skip it. You think, " what does it matter, I'm never going to reach my goal anyway. " And so you make very little progress and get even more discouraged. You're even less motivated to workout/ eat right/ any other behavior that moves you toward your goal (because you don't see them as things that will get you there) and eventually you give up. You just proved yourself right.
I'm going to relate this to my own life as an example.
Big confession: I can't drive. Over the past 7 years I've taken my road test 2 or 3 times (don't remember haha) and haven't even reached the three point turn or parallel park before failing. I have this mental block where I truly don't believe that I can drive. The few times I took my test I really didn't put in enough practice. I didn't think I could do it so I didn't make the time to practice and improve. And as a result I further confirmed my thought that; "yes, I was right, I can't drive."
I am working on believing that it IS possible. That every time I go out and practice driving I will get a little closer to actually being able to do it. It is not easy. It takes concentrated effort just to change your thought process. To, every time a negative thought comes into your head, take it and turn it into a positive thought.
Every time I think about driving, I feel self doubt creeping into my head and I'm making it a point to squash that doubt by thinking, "Yes, driving is something that is difficult for you, but it's NOT IMPOSSIBLE. Have you ever put in 100% (or even 80%) effort to achieve it? No. So until you are making the effort to practice driving at least 3-4 times a week for 30+ minutes consistently ( 2-3 months), don't you dare tell yourself that you can't do it. You CAN do it, you just haven't put in the time and effort needed yet."
I'm challenging you all :), to think about your goals and whether or not you truly believe they're possible. And I want you to know that I 100% believe they are achievable with CONSISTENT hard work and effort over time. The more consistent and persistant you are, the sooner you will see the results you want.
"Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than ANY obstacle. " ~ Christian D. Larson
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Sunday, January 8, 2012
For the New Year I figured I update my site to better reflect my training philosophy, so "Run for the Bikini" is now officially "Run (and Lift!) for the Bikini!" :D I know it doesn't quite have the same ring to it, but I can't emphasis enough the effect lifting has on both changing your physique, improving athletic performance, and instilling confidence. Those are the Big 3 things that keep me motivated to workout (not in that order) so I'm sticking to it, like it or not :P
I've written in my recent posts about how I've been following the Jamie Eason LiveFit Trainer since September. I finished the first round the day before Christmas, took that week off diet wise (I did still lift daily) and started back at the beginning this past Monday. I am adjusting things slightly this time to meet my specific needs/goals, but for the most part I follow it as written.
I've had AMAZING results with it and it helped me reach some goals that I was "so close, but yet so far" from achieving.
For 1, my pull-up/ chin-ups. Early in the program I achieved my first 2 dead hang chin-ups, I can now proudly say I'm up to 3 dead hang chins, 1 glorious dead hang pull-up and I even did a chin-up with a 5lb KB on my foot.
So Freaking Gorgeous!!!
~ Goal for 2012 : 20lb KB Pull-up/Chin-up. For right now I'm going to work on increasing my number of non-weighted ones :)
#2 THE HUGE, NEVER ENDING QUEST TO BREAK 20 MINUTES THAT I NEVER THOUGHT WOULD HAPPEN.
Even though I broke it twice, it still feels a little unreal to me, ESPECIALLY running 19 Flat.
The more shocking part of it is the training that led me to run that fast. This is how cardio is laid out in the JE Trainer: Phase 1 (4 weeks) - NO Cardio, Whatsoever! (although I personally ran a few races) Phase 2 (4 weeks) - 3-4 times a week medium intensity cardio Phase 3 (4 weeks)- Sprints, 30 seconds on/ 30 seconds off for 30 minutes (I usually went at a 10.5- 11.2 pace for my on, jumped my feet to the sides and rested for the off).
I think what affected my race times the most was a combination of these 4 things:
1) Increased leg strength and also gaining upper body strength made me a stronger, faster runner.
2) Losing exclusively body fat, you know how they say each lb of bf you lose takes a few seconds off your time, I know whole heartedly believe that. And with this program I preserved all (and even added some) muscle while losing 10lbs (mostly fat, some water), as evident with my body fat % dropping from 23% to 16-17%
3) SPRINTS! Since speed has always been my weaker point, improving upon it had a huge impact on my performance. In those weeks leading up to my 19 minute 5k, my running training was exclusively those 30 on/ 30 off sprints (with a short warm-up/ cool down), I did not do a single steady state run. I don't recommend this to everyone looking to improve their 5k times, but as I said speed being my weakness this worked for me. If you are the type of runner who has a lot of speed but lacks endurance this mort likely wont have the same results for you.
4) Phase 3 of the program includes plyometrics as active rest and a whole lot of jump roping. This made my lifting in this phase as much of a cardio workout as a strength one. It also improved my power and overall conditioning.
~ Goal for 2012: Sub-19 Baby (I'm ridiculously close to this but I have a feeling I'm going to go a little backwards before I PR again)
#3 It's January and I would feel perfectly confident if I had to wear a bikini tomorrow :)
Honestly I've never had this kind of definition in my life, and I'm LOVING it!
This is a progress pic from beginning of December- 2 & 1/2 months into my first round of the trainer.
Taken 4 days ago, I gained a little bloat weight over the holiday week, but after this week of eating clean and lifting heavy I'm back to where I was when I finished the trainer on 12/23.
This go around I am really looking to put on some lean muscle mass. I ended my first round a few lbs under my goal weight which I don't mind, but I don't want to lose anymore weight. I'm taking the "no cardio in Phase 1 rule" very seriously which is a little scary (for me), but at least its January so there isn't much racing going on. And I'm amazed at how much clean food I have to eat to keep weight on, much less gain weight while lifting.
~Goal for 2012: Continue to gain muscle and possibly. . . enter a bikini comp? Eeeek!
Ohh and another thing I'm pretty darn proud of: Back Squatting #135 for multiple sets of 5 reps. It's not all that heavy but it's 20+ lbs more than my bodyweight, so it makes me extremely giddy :)
2012 February/March 2012: Back Squating 155 for sets of 5, 165 for sets of 3, 175 1 RM
If you incorporate resistance training/lifting into your workouts, how has it helped you achieve your goals?